"It happens to everyone as they grow up; you find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that the people and the things you’ve known and done forever don’t see things the way you do. And so you keep the memories but find yourself moving on with life."....My Question is....is this part of life a good thing or a bad thing?? because i think I'm there!
When i heard this quote i totally related..Friends change, or move on, family changes, your grown up.. i think I'm at that crossroads in your life where..your looking in all directions to see what is next..and you have to choose what direction to step in. And to be honest I'm one of those people who would much rather be given choices and get to choose..none of this "Not going to know what my life will be like in a month things" I HATE it, call me boring call me whatever..i don't like change and i don't like when i am not in full control of something like this. I feel like since i have graduated i need something more, now i know i am supposed to be "taking the summer to have fun & relax" which i am..but freaking out a tad, what job will i have in a few months. What if i hate it but it's a job so i stay, but i miss a better job because i stayed, what if we buy ahouse and it's like forever away from my job that i got before we bought the house, What if i can't find a job/career i will have forever?, What if i think i will like the job and then i don't and i quit, What if i get knocked up before i find a job..who hires preggers women? no one! What if the HAVE NO VACATION..ahhh scary, what if the people i work with hate me and secretly plan mean scams to get me fired? ..what if!!! all these things happen!! Oh man..Today is one of THOSE days.... yeah worry days! Just keep telling myself that it will be fine.......
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Ya I hear ya on the what ifs of life. I do it all day long and I've learned it doesn't help anything to stew over it, but I still do it. It's pretty much engrained in me! We were having the same issue with trying to decide where to move with Zack's job, but he drives every which way so often that I finally just went ahead and started looking in places I'd like to live in. Everything somehow works out. I promise. Somehow you will find a job that won't be too far from where you live if you are looking in a certain area, and you will naturally be attracted to finding jobs in an area you feel comfortable working as well as living! At least you are already graduated! I've still got two years to go being strapped for freaking cash for school all the freaking time!
It is a tough place. Right after everyone graduates seems to be a really hard transition....Like, well Now what ? kind of thing.?
When Dave had his degree and could NOT find a job and we didn't know where to move or if we should move or if we should have babies....IT was really the hardest time for us. Especially Dave. It's frustrating NOT KNOWING what is next and will that "next" be the best thing for your family. I hear. ya. BUT so happy you are graduated and on your way to the next chapter. Once you turn that page and relax a tad I KNOW YOU WILL be more happy than EVER. Every step seems to get better and better in a lot of ways. AND youre good at anything you pursue in life so Chillax baby cuz. You got this.!
This is kind of an odd way to think about it, but I hope it makes you feel a little better. Maybe there are all these choices in front of you (or will be) and it's hard to choose, because no matter which one(s) you choose, it will be good for you. All the different paths you could take will be good for you in different ways. So in a way, no matter which one you guys decided to choose-- it will always work out, because they all work for you! You guys are amazing!! You're so good together and I know you can do anything together!! We all love you and believe in you!! :)
Honey!!!!!! YOU have a wonderful life! Just let things happen, unfold as they should!!!
It is in God's hands, just listen and YOU will know! It isn't time right now!
Embrace whatever comes your way and it will all be a beautiful tapestry!!
Good and Bad!! That's life!!
Grow with it!! YOU are awesome, YOU are already way ahead of the game Believe me! Plus YOU are loved!!! Mom and Dad
I love that after i wrote this post..my whole family was like "are you ok? are you really having a hard time?" No im nto depressed or like stressing out to the max. Cant a girl vent about worries without people thinking shes totally unhappy. I AM HAPPY and loving life...just wish i knew what was coming next! DONT WORRY!
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